A New Friend For My Anxious Pet
Friday, December 19th, 2008When you love animals, it?s hard to have just one. In the beginning, you might have planned on having only one pet. But then you met that loveable stray, or your friend tricked you into visiting an animal shelter and it was too late. You had to have another pet.
Whatever the reason, now you?ve got a new pet and you have to introduce to your current pet, who probably won?t be too happy about it.
What do I do, now that I have a new friend for my anxious pet?
What to think about
First, you must understand that this introduction can only go so well. Your pets will not experience love at first site and be best friends forever from moment one. Getting along will take time.
Also, it is important to remember that all animals have individual personalities, so some may fit into your household better than others. Take this into account when you are picking out a new pet.
Getting started
When you bring your new pet home, give the new pet and your current pet their own, separate spaces in the house. You should keep them apart at first. Make sure you spend an hour a day with each pet. Watch them for signs of anxiety and stress. Signs of stress include:
- Aggression
- Hiding
- Loss of hunger
- Crying
Make sure your pets have time to acclimate to his new situation.
Early introductions
When your pets seem comfortable, put your new pet in a different room and allow your current pet into the new pet?s old room to learn his scent. You could also give the current cat something with the new pet?s scent on it.
The next step is allowing the pets to smell each other on opposite sides of a door. If they are comfortable, you could allow them to see each other while still remaining physically separated. Each pet is different, so the pace with which you move through these steps will vary. It is important to have patience because anxious animals can be more aggressive.
Meeting in person
When your pets are comfortable smelling and seeing each other, you can move on to the next step: bringing them together in a neutral room. It is helpful to have two people for this step. This way each of you can play with a pet and give them treats to reassure them and help create positive association. If you have dogs, you may need two people to stop aggressive behavior.
If the situation deteriorates, you may need to separate the animals and bring them together at a later time.
Moving on from there
At first, only allow your pets to be together under supervised visits until they are comfortable with each other. This may take hours, days or weeks depending on your animals. The important thing is to stay patient and proceed with caution so your pets can be as comfortable and happy as possible throughout the experiences.
A note for dog owners: Dogs create their own social order between themselves, so make sure that both dogs remember that you are the top dog.
In the end, your dogs may become best friends or they might just get along. It?s ultimately up to them, and either way is ok.
http://en.allexperts.com/q/Dogs-701/Introducing-new-8-week.htm
http://www.bestfriends.org/theanimals/pdfs/cats/introducingcats.pdf